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"We think we listen, but very rarely do we listen with real understanding,
true empathy. Yet listening, of this very special kind, is one of the most
​potent forces for change that I know.”

- CARL ROGERS

Let's connect 1:1.  What would be helpful to you?

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Intuitive Listening Session

An Intuitive Listening Session offers the opportunity to process and talk through whatever topic or challenge you are wrestling with.  You have my full attention, deep listening with no judgment, simply holding space for the capable human that you are! I may ask questions, we may choose to pull some cards for inspiration or direction, or maybe you'd like some suggestions for journaling or other exploration to do on your own. We work together to create a space for you to unpack, verbally process, and be supported in your processing. 

Support for Support Group Leaders

I've always been a maker of some sort, dabbling in lots of things, taking deep dives in things that really interest me.  I have used art journaling for personal growth and introspection for some time.   I love poetry, too, for its ability to distill deep truths into just the essence of what they are, or to give us a fresh way to see something.  I bring art and poetry into my groups and one on one work often.  I think that all of us are born inherently creative.  So many of us have been told the opposite, or our inner critic is strong and we don't know how to change the story and get back to that part of us that's just a child clutching a crayon with joy.  Art for me is a way to PLAY, to step into the unknown, to take risks, and to tell my story in a brave new way. What I can do with art, I can do in my life. This was an identity that was challenging for me to own.  I am an artist because I create, and because I am agent of change and creation in my own life.
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​Postpartum Adjustment Check-in

See me over there in that group of awesome people?  That's a pic of one of the fabulous cohorts of folks I've had the privilege of teaching as a GPS Master Trainer.  Group Peer Support (GPS), and my experience facilitating 500+ groups, are a huge part of my journey toward being a better listener.  More recently, I've taken on studying the Hakomi method and have found even more skills and tools for deep listening. I've long been the kind of person who craves vulnerability and authenticity and more than just chit-chat.  But cultivating that means knowing how to listen.  Foundational to all the groups I facilitate are things like non-judgment and compassion as we listen to each other's stories.  We offer each other the gift of deep listening.  We all need places where we can be fully ourselves and be accepted.  We need places where we can share our stories and have them be held gently. We need people who can listen deeply without fixing or rescuing, where we can see and be seen.  This is what I try to bring to the work I do.

Other Interesting Bits and Influences

  • Master Trainer and Certified Facilitator for Group Peer Support (GPS) model
  • Facilitated 500+ groups over the past 8 years.
  • Hakomi level 1 & 2 through Seattle Hakomi Education Network
  • Founded Kitsap HOPE Circle
  • 5 years as a birth doula, attended 100+ births
  • Birth Art and Birth Story Listening through Birthing From Within
  • I prioritize ongoing learning around issues of anti-racism, equity, and social justice.
  • Ongoing work with Perinatal Support WA (PS-WA) to train and assist new support group leaders.
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​The Fun Stuff (and other stuff)

  • Between the two of us, we have 8 kids, ranging in age from 10 all the up to 27.  We have 5 grandbabies too!
  • I HATE BANANAS!!!  (it's true.  literally the ONLY food I don't like)
  • Kindness, curiosity, adventure, community, and creativity are all things I consider core values.
  • I read books and drink coffee at about the same pace.
  • I'm an Exvangelical.  Much was deconstructed and unlearned after 30 years in American Evangelical culture.
  • Shows I can binge watch:  The Good Place, Parks & Rec, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Downton Abbey, Better Call Saul, Orange is the New Black
  • I have a thing for mermaids, selkies, and all sorts of things living between worlds.  The topics of "transition" and "liminal space" are frequently in my conversations. 
  • Things that I am trying my best to do on a daily-ish basis:  art journal, pull tarot/oracle cards for myself, walk around the block.
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