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What's Your Dahlia Personality?

8/13/2025

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Choose your favorite dahlia from these currently growing in my garden.
Then scroll down to see if your "dahlia personality profile" is a match.

blah, blah, blah, skip to the goodies!
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One of the things I love most about growing dahlias is seeing them return year after year, like friends showing up for their annual visit.  I know their names, and have seen the way they’ve evolved over time. Some of these beauties have been hanging around my garden for years, and I'm now tending to their great, great, great, grand-dahlias. There’s a long-standing bond between us. It’s like a family reunion, but with petals instead of people, and everyone’s quieter and better behaved. (side note: I think every mom should have a hobby that involves NO ONE talking)

I’m all about a good dahlia newbie too. The fresh faces are always fun to meet, watching them pop up like “Hey, look what I can do!” and slowly uncovering their personalities as they grow. The new ones can be fun and surprising, almost like meeting a stranger who quickly becomes a friend, revealing a side of themselves you didn’t expect. Don't even get me started on the glorious chaotic surprise of mystery and mislabeled tubers!

What gets me every time is how different they all are. Tall ones, short ones. Thick stems, delicate stems. Blooms that look like they’re going to break the jar with their fullness, and others that are a little more....understated. And then there’s the color! (have I mentioned my favorite color is ALL of them??!?)  Dahlias come in so many gorgeous colors with blushes, and striations, and variations of all kinds. Did you know there are over 55,000 dahlia varieties? That's a whole lot of floral personalities, each unique and beautiful in its own way.
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Growing dahlias (or growing anything) feels similar to art for me - I think there is so much contained within that can offer lessons and medicine for living life. Some years, things feel dormant.  Sometimes there isn't much happening above ground, but we know that under the surface, there’s a whole world of growth happening in secret. Other times? Boom. Everything bursts out of the soil at once.  That’s just one of the lessons, right? Even when we can’t see the progress, something is happening.  And we can learn to trust this process.

There's something about each dahlia for me that says a little something about that blooms personality.  It's interesting to see which ones my friends gravitate toward.  It’s uncanny.  A friend or neighbor will wander my garden and choose their favorite dahlia, and it’s like their personality just aligns with the flower. There’s this weird, magical thing where I can look at someone, then glance at a dahlia, and think, "Yep. That’s them. That's you." I swear it’s like the dahlias have their own little intuitive matchmaking game going on.

So, I thought I'd share this fun dahlia magic with you. Ready to find your dahlia alter ego?  If you’ve ever wondered which dahlia just GETS you, here’s your chance. Take a minute to choose your favorite from the photos above.  Then scroll down and find out which dahlia flower matches your vibe. Maybe you’re the fierce AC Cougar, strutting through life like it’s your runway. Or perhaps you’re more of a Fuzzy Wuzzy—soft, playful, with a touch of mystery. 

Have some fun with it, and let me know how your floral personality matches up. Sometimes it seems like these blooms know more about us than we think.


 

What does your favorite dahlia say about you?

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1. Fuzzy Wuzzy
You chose Fuzzy Wuzzy, the fluffy, bright pink-and-white bundle of joy! This dahlia is like that friend who always has the best  hugs and the quirkiest fashion sense - think thrifted sweaters, crocheted scarves and fuzzy socks. People who choose Fuzzy Wuzzy are often fun-loving, soft-hearted, and never afraid to embrace a little playfulness.

How to bloom: Lean into the joy! Grab a friend and some good snacks and go for a spontaneous, mini local road trip. Look for the glimmers, you can find sparkly moments anywhere.

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2. Hulin's Carnival
Hulin's Carnival is a whirlwind of color and personality! Each bloom is a little different - white petals splashed with bright pink and red - this dahlia is for the free spirit, the artist, the one who loves to embrace the unexpected and make life feel like a fun carousel ride. You juggle so many things that bring joy to the world, every day for you is about sharing a smile whenever you can.

How to bloom: Have fun on the rollercoaster of life, just don't get trapped on someone else's carnival ride. A little bit of chaos and spontaneity can be magical, and it's also ok to set boundaries and protect your peace.  

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3.  Southern Belle
Like any true belle of the south, this beautiful bloom is always poised, graceful and charming. This water lily-type dahlia is a pause-at-the-top-of-the-spiral-staircase showstopper, just like you. You’re the person who walks into a room with both elegance and a playful spirit.  You may appear sweet and demure (eyelashes fluttering), but you should never be underestimated, because damn it, you WILL find a way!

How to bloom: Don’t be afraid to share your warmth with others. The world could use a little more of your sparkle and grace. Throw on that hat, twirl through the garden, and let your joy be contagious!

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4. Verrone's Obsidian
This delicate and spiky bloom is not afraid of a little darkness. Verrone's Obsidian says "Shadow work? Bring it on." With its deep cabernet petals and star-like shape, this dahlia is for the bold, the enigmatic, and the ones who don’t mind standing out in their own unique way. You’re a thinker, an observer, a noticer of patterns.  You want to skip the small talk and get to the deeper meaning in conversations.  

How to bloom: Sometimes the best way to stand out is to be yourself in all your glorious mystery. Always leave them wanting more. And remember - there's magic in the shadows.

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5. Peanut Brittle
This dahlia is for those who appreciate the classics and know the value of a good combo of soft + sturdy. With its light rusty orange color and ruffly petals, Peanut Brittle feels like a quilt your grandma made - warm, cozy, and full of love. People drawn to this dahlia have a practical yet nostalgic side. You cherish traditions, comfort, and laughing with loved ones. You probably have piles of cozy throw blankets and bake the best oatmeal cookies.

How to bloom:  Give yourself some time to savor the simple things - a cup of tea, an afternoon in the garden, or a good book. Take a moment to write a sweet love note to someone you are grateful for.

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6. Gabrielle Marie
Big, bold, and peachy-pink with a golden center—Gabrielle Marie understood the assignment! This dahlia is for the person who has a heart (and wardrobe) as big as these blooms. You've got fashion sense and will never pass up an opportunity to throw on heels and go full glam! You’re probably the friend who gives the best compliments and birthday gifts - because you know how to make people feel special.

How to bloom: Your vibrant, warm energy is allowed to take center stage sometimes.  The next time you receive a compliment, take it in, BELIEVE it, and don't deflect. The world needs your sparkle, so shine on!

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7. AC Cougar
Impossible to ignore, AC Cougar is a fiery, cactus-type dahlia that knows how to steal the spotlight. If you choose this one, you may be the person who thrives on excitement and isn’t afraid of a little drama. You’re bold, energetic, and have a way of turning heads wherever you go. If there's some spicy truth that needs to be told, you'll have no problem speaking your mind.

How to bloom: Go ahead, take up space! You’re a star, the opinions of others should never dull your fire. Wear something that makes you feel unstoppable and speak from your heart.

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​8.  Mary Lou
Ah, Mary Lou, your classic, girl-next-door sidekick! With its butter-yellow and peachy blush petals, Mary Lou is like a flowy summer dress and a glass of tea on the front porch. The person who picks this dahlia is likely someone who appreciates the beauty of structure but still loves a good surprise. You might be a planner who colors inside the lines, but you know how to be easy breezy too, when the time is right!

How to bloom:  Give yourself some time to appreciate the soft glow of simplicity by watching a sunset, waving to your neighbors, or doodling some hearts.  It doesn't take much to make the ordinary special.

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